The search for love isn’t linear – even for the experts.
Two months before her wedding, Clinical Psychologist and couples therapist Phoebe Rogers called it off, sparking a profound healing journey that led her to a love she’d never known – for herself, and ultimately, a new partner.
Part memoir, part practical self-help, When Will It Happen For Me? blends Phoebe’s personal story with insights from her therapy practice in a shame-free guide to finding love on your own timeline. Drawing on Schema Therapy, attachment theory, and inner child work, she reveals the unconscious beliefs that block healthy love and offers a relatable, actionable framework to help you:
Heal after heartbreak with strategies for grieving, processing loss, and finding meaning in pain
Recognise & change the patterns that shape the love you accept
Rediscover your authentic self and reconnect with your strengths, values, and joy
Break cycles of over-giving by setting boundaries
Date with clarity, confidence, and quickly identity red flags
Build lasting, secure love based on reciprocity and emotional maturity
Whether you’re seeking the right partner or deepening love in your current relationship, When Will It Happen For Me? is the self-trust roadmap women have been waiting for. Love is out there – and it starts with you.
Non-fiction
About The Author
Phoebe Rogers is a Clinical Psychologist specialising in dating and relationships, a Couples Counsellor, and the founder of The Relationship Space.
She holds a Master of Clinical Psychology (UOW), a Graduate Diploma in Relationship Counselling, and is an expert in Schema Therapy and attachment-informed care.
Phoebe has helped thousands through her private practice, courses, and writing to transform the way they can romantically reset and find a loving relationship. She is sought out for her compassionate, direct, and integrative approach, using Schema Therapy, coaching, couples therapy, and good old-fashioned pragmatic advice.
Phoebe also runs an online group for women who want healthy relationships.
When Will It Happen For Me? Is her first book.
